Comments on: We can be happy if we choose to http://www.davecheong.com/2006/06/26/we-can-be-happy-if-we-choose-to/ A journey from Java Software Engineer to Entrepreneur and beyond Fri, 05 Feb 2010 11:13:10 +1100 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: Not Happy With my Life http://www.davecheong.com/2006/06/26/we-can-be-happy-if-we-choose-to/comment-page-1/#comment-120490 Not Happy With my Life Fri, 15 Jan 2010 23:46:34 +0000 http://www.davecheong.com/2006/06/26/we-can-be-happy-if-we-choose-to/#comment-120490 How do I think posotive if I am not good at anything??? I screw up on whatever I do. I am dislexic so I can't get any into a good job because I failed in my classes and I dropped out and my mother taught me. I have asthma so I didn't play any sports in school, I couldn't have because I was failing. I have been working as a cashier at my local IGA for I don't know how many years. I've been taking medications so I don't jump off a building.....Seriously. I almost stole from my work I don't know how many times. I am typing on a computer at a cafe. I live at a tiny 7-room house that my parents' gave me. I'm in debt, not too much because my friend has helped me out (He's great) No wife, no kids, no girlfriend( I have been dumped sooo many times) No life. How do I think posotive if I am not good at anything??? I screw up on whatever I do. I am dislexic so I can’t get any into a good job because I failed in my classes and I dropped out and my mother taught me. I have asthma so I didn’t play any sports in school, I couldn’t have because I was failing. I have been working as a cashier at my local IGA for I don’t know how many years. I’ve been taking medications so I don’t jump off a building…..Seriously. I almost stole from my work I don’t know how many times. I am typing on a computer at a cafe. I live at a tiny 7-room house that my parents’ gave me. I’m in debt, not too much because my friend has helped me out (He’s great) No wife, no kids, no girlfriend( I have been dumped sooo many times)

No life.

]]> By: fake smile http://www.davecheong.com/2006/06/26/we-can-be-happy-if-we-choose-to/comment-page-1/#comment-120418 fake smile Thu, 10 Dec 2009 15:04:05 +0000 http://www.davecheong.com/2006/06/26/we-can-be-happy-if-we-choose-to/#comment-120418 why i hate my life and myself ? i cant understand, im not happy why? how i can live a happylife? why i hate my life and myself ? i cant understand, im not happy why? how i can live a happylife?

]]> By: lex http://www.davecheong.com/2006/06/26/we-can-be-happy-if-we-choose-to/comment-page-1/#comment-120222 lex Mon, 23 Nov 2009 05:32:57 +0000 http://www.davecheong.com/2006/06/26/we-can-be-happy-if-we-choose-to/#comment-120222 wow that is such a great post.. someone said to me that we choose how we want to feel but i never really beleived it until you explained it the way you did. the example with the lemon was great than-you so much :) wow that is such a great post.. someone said to me that we choose how we want to feel but i never really beleived it until you explained it the way you did. the example with the lemon was great

than-you so much :)

]]> By: faisal http://www.davecheong.com/2006/06/26/we-can-be-happy-if-we-choose-to/comment-page-1/#comment-118213 faisal Mon, 19 Oct 2009 06:33:48 +0000 http://www.davecheong.com/2006/06/26/we-can-be-happy-if-we-choose-to/#comment-118213 My friend God bless you,by the way you can grow happiness in the field of your mind by loving your self. My friend God bless you,by the way you can grow happiness in the field of your mind by loving your self.

]]> By: Nicole http://www.davecheong.com/2006/06/26/we-can-be-happy-if-we-choose-to/comment-page-1/#comment-114433 Nicole Wed, 19 Aug 2009 04:58:44 +0000 http://www.davecheong.com/2006/06/26/we-can-be-happy-if-we-choose-to/#comment-114433 Hey Dave, Great post!! I wanted to ask your oppinion about something ... Why do you think we (people in general) let outside influences effect how we feel about ourselves? I would love to hear your thoughts?? Hey Dave,

Great post!! I wanted to ask your oppinion about something … Why do you think we (people in general) let outside influences effect how we feel about ourselves? I would love to hear your thoughts??

]]> By: Cherie http://www.davecheong.com/2006/06/26/we-can-be-happy-if-we-choose-to/comment-page-1/#comment-111657 Cherie Tue, 30 Jun 2009 14:06:32 +0000 http://www.davecheong.com/2006/06/26/we-can-be-happy-if-we-choose-to/#comment-111657 I just stumbled across your post and, finding it very helpful, read some others as well. I love your material and will certainly pass it along and return often myself. I just stumbled across your post and, finding it very helpful, read some others as well. I love your material and will certainly pass it along and return often myself.

]]> By: kiki http://www.davecheong.com/2006/06/26/we-can-be-happy-if-we-choose-to/comment-page-1/#comment-111113 kiki Sat, 20 Jun 2009 07:33:35 +0000 http://www.davecheong.com/2006/06/26/we-can-be-happy-if-we-choose-to/#comment-111113 Hi Dave, i haven't been able to prepare even for a small exam from last more than 2 years. People say it takes only 2 months preperation for that software related exam, along with job. i'm too lazy suggest a way to get out of it please Hi Dave,

i haven’t been able to prepare even for a small exam from last more than 2 years.
People say it takes only 2 months preperation for that software related exam, along with job.

i’m too lazy

suggest a way to get out of it please

]]> By: nasrin http://www.davecheong.com/2006/06/26/we-can-be-happy-if-we-choose-to/comment-page-1/#comment-92887 nasrin Sun, 02 Nov 2008 07:21:49 +0000 http://www.davecheong.com/2006/06/26/we-can-be-happy-if-we-choose-to/#comment-92887 we have a poem that means laugh on world to world laugh on you. we have a poem that means laugh on world to world laugh on you.

]]> By: aziz http://www.davecheong.com/2006/06/26/we-can-be-happy-if-we-choose-to/comment-page-1/#comment-89651 aziz Fri, 19 Sep 2008 13:34:25 +0000 http://www.davecheong.com/2006/06/26/we-can-be-happy-if-we-choose-to/#comment-89651 hey everybody here, really i'm very happy to open this siteweb for search for happy na d discusse about our problem . so thank u for everybody here hey
everybody here, really i’m very happy to open this siteweb for search for happy na d discusse about our problem . so thank u for everybody here

]]> By: Nicole http://www.davecheong.com/2006/06/26/we-can-be-happy-if-we-choose-to/comment-page-1/#comment-86039 Nicole Fri, 08 Aug 2008 20:44:26 +0000 http://www.davecheong.com/2006/06/26/we-can-be-happy-if-we-choose-to/#comment-86039 Very well written! I have a very stressful job and when things go right, I'm happy. When things don't, I'll admit, I allow those outside factors to influence my feelings. I would eventually like to be so outside influences to not affect my mood--that I'm happy because I CHOOSE to be. And instead of focusing on the negative, think of the positive. I have much more to learn. Thank you Dave! Very well written! I have a very stressful job and when things go right, I’m happy. When things don’t, I’ll admit, I allow those outside factors to influence my feelings. I would eventually like to be so outside influences to not affect my mood–that I’m happy because I CHOOSE to be. And instead of focusing on the negative, think of the positive. I have much more to learn. Thank you Dave!

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