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	<title>Comments on: Why Getting Personal Stuff Done Is Hard</title>
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		<title>By: Dave Cheong</title>
		<link>http://www.davecheong.com/2009/04/24/why-getting-personal-stuff-done-is-hard/comment-page-1/#comment-120389</link>
		<dc:creator>Dave Cheong</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Nov 2009 10:13:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Irene,

Thanks for the comment. Using a trust worthy friend to help keep you accountable is a great idea. And it works. It&#039;s a technique I&#039;ve used to great success in the past. 

However, it&#039;s not *the* only way and donating $100 or other equally &quot;painful&quot; incentive also works. The added benefit of the self-imposed incentive is you don&#039;t need anyone else to make it work.

dave</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Irene,</p>
<p>Thanks for the comment. Using a trust worthy friend to help keep you accountable is a great idea. And it works. It&#8217;s a technique I&#8217;ve used to great success in the past. </p>
<p>However, it&#8217;s not *the* only way and donating $100 or other equally &#8220;painful&#8221; incentive also works. The added benefit of the self-imposed incentive is you don&#8217;t need anyone else to make it work.</p>
<p>dave</p>
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		<title>By: Irene Suwarno</title>
		<link>http://www.davecheong.com/2009/04/24/why-getting-personal-stuff-done-is-hard/comment-page-1/#comment-120388</link>
		<dc:creator>Irene Suwarno</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Nov 2009 23:05:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with this sentence: &quot;The problem with Time Boxing however, especially for personal tasks, is there is no tangible effect from a delay. There is no 
accountability and no punishment for going over-time.&quot;

But by having ourselves to make something up like donating $100 to a worthwhile charity for every week we are late is not going to be effective either.

What I think is important when you want to get your personal stuff done is to let someone like your friend or sibling know that you are going to do what you&#039;ve said you wanted to do, repeatedly. Then this person must always asking about your progress so far within or before the time frame you&#039;ve set. I think this is quite effective because we don&#039;t want to be seemed like a person who only talk but never execute the plan. It&#039;s more about being a reliable person especially if you have others know that you are a reliable, trustworthy person...isn&#039;t it going to make you proud about yourself?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with this sentence: &#8220;The problem with Time Boxing however, especially for personal tasks, is there is no tangible effect from a delay. There is no<br />
accountability and no punishment for going over-time.&#8221;</p>
<p>But by having ourselves to make something up like donating $100 to a worthwhile charity for every week we are late is not going to be effective either.</p>
<p>What I think is important when you want to get your personal stuff done is to let someone like your friend or sibling know that you are going to do what you&#8217;ve said you wanted to do, repeatedly. Then this person must always asking about your progress so far within or before the time frame you&#8217;ve set. I think this is quite effective because we don&#8217;t want to be seemed like a person who only talk but never execute the plan. It&#8217;s more about being a reliable person especially if you have others know that you are a reliable, trustworthy person&#8230;isn&#8217;t it going to make you proud about yourself?</p>
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		<title>By: Ralph</title>
		<link>http://www.davecheong.com/2009/04/24/why-getting-personal-stuff-done-is-hard/comment-page-1/#comment-119799</link>
		<dc:creator>Ralph</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Nov 2009 11:02:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I like the idea of treating non work tasks the same way.  I think that it is all about creating successful habits and carrying those habits into the work that you do.  Great post!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like the idea of treating non work tasks the same way.  I think that it is all about creating successful habits and carrying those habits into the work that you do.  Great post!</p>
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		<title>By: carol</title>
		<link>http://www.davecheong.com/2009/04/24/why-getting-personal-stuff-done-is-hard/comment-page-1/#comment-116837</link>
		<dc:creator>carol</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 13:23:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ahh, deadlines. they totally freak me out! i think this is my single most devastating stressor to date and it&#039;s really horrible. I always need to remind myself that everything will not fall apart even if I rest for a while and try to recoup my energy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ahh, deadlines. they totally freak me out! i think this is my single most devastating stressor to date and it&#8217;s really horrible. I always need to remind myself that everything will not fall apart even if I rest for a while and try to recoup my energy.</p>
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		<title>By: Fede-lasse</title>
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		<dc:creator>Fede-lasse</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2009 14:40:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi. What you describe in your article is a serious problem to me as well. I tend to get distracted and bored very often.

I have a project going on, which I put on hold a few weeks ago. The main reason was that I just got bored, mainly because of the coding (FYI, it’s ActionScript 3.0). I haven’t worked on it much since. However, I have a good reason to finish it, because:
1.	I’m probably going to need it in the near future as a programmer (or anything related to that).
2.	I can use it as well for making other hobby projects because of the experience I get in the making.

I hope to continue it someday, if I get the motivation back. Regarding concentration issues, I do everything I can to optimize myself, like sleeping well, drinking lots of water, eating a good lunch, etc. I don’t want to change my sleeping hours because I’m a sleepy person. No joke. Since I’m so unmotivated, what am I doing wrong?

PS: Your blog is somewhat an inspiration to me for continuing my home project. You seem to write a lot about concentration problems, which I don’t exactly counter well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi. What you describe in your article is a serious problem to me as well. I tend to get distracted and bored very often.</p>
<p>I have a project going on, which I put on hold a few weeks ago. The main reason was that I just got bored, mainly because of the coding (FYI, it’s ActionScript 3.0). I haven’t worked on it much since. However, I have a good reason to finish it, because:<br />
1.	I’m probably going to need it in the near future as a programmer (or anything related to that).<br />
2.	I can use it as well for making other hobby projects because of the experience I get in the making.</p>
<p>I hope to continue it someday, if I get the motivation back. Regarding concentration issues, I do everything I can to optimize myself, like sleeping well, drinking lots of water, eating a good lunch, etc. I don’t want to change my sleeping hours because I’m a sleepy person. No joke. Since I’m so unmotivated, what am I doing wrong?</p>
<p>PS: Your blog is somewhat an inspiration to me for continuing my home project. You seem to write a lot about concentration problems, which I don’t exactly counter well.</p>
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		<title>By: Jamie</title>
		<link>http://www.davecheong.com/2009/04/24/why-getting-personal-stuff-done-is-hard/comment-page-1/#comment-114493</link>
		<dc:creator>Jamie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Aug 2009 23:01:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You should write a post about why Engineers are inherently bad entrepreneurs.

Key points

 - They try to do the development themselves
 - They have little to no marketing skills
 - The call being busy reading about new technologies rather than driving sales
 - They are engineers

For an engineer to be a successful entrepreneur they need to use their old skills only as ammo in the meeting room, not in the terminal. Every minute spent coding is a minute which should be spent selling or telling someone else what to code.

Once the business is successful, engineers can return to the &quot;fun&quot; work of engineering the product, if not it will always just be a hobby which may, but most likely will not catch a lucky break.

Dave m8, your company website still says Products announcing Jan 2009. I hope that&#039;s because you are in the meeting room selling and have no time for updating hobbies.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You should write a post about why Engineers are inherently bad entrepreneurs.</p>
<p>Key points</p>
<p> &#8211; They try to do the development themselves<br />
 &#8211; They have little to no marketing skills<br />
 &#8211; The call being busy reading about new technologies rather than driving sales<br />
 &#8211; They are engineers</p>
<p>For an engineer to be a successful entrepreneur they need to use their old skills only as ammo in the meeting room, not in the terminal. Every minute spent coding is a minute which should be spent selling or telling someone else what to code.</p>
<p>Once the business is successful, engineers can return to the &#8220;fun&#8221; work of engineering the product, if not it will always just be a hobby which may, but most likely will not catch a lucky break.</p>
<p>Dave m8, your company website still says Products announcing Jan 2009. I hope that&#8217;s because you are in the meeting room selling and have no time for updating hobbies.</p>
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		<title>By: J.D. Meier</title>
		<link>http://www.davecheong.com/2009/04/24/why-getting-personal-stuff-done-is-hard/comment-page-1/#comment-111906</link>
		<dc:creator>J.D. Meier</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 03:18:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>At the end of the day, we&#039;re good at getting things that MUST be done, done ... but not so good at getting things that SHOULD or COULD be done.  I agree - escalate your personal tasks to MUSTs.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>At the end of the day, we&#8217;re good at getting things that MUST be done, done &#8230; but not so good at getting things that SHOULD or COULD be done.  I agree &#8211; escalate your personal tasks to MUSTs.</p>
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		<title>By: Dave Cheong</title>
		<link>http://www.davecheong.com/2009/04/24/why-getting-personal-stuff-done-is-hard/comment-page-1/#comment-107358</link>
		<dc:creator>Dave Cheong</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2009 06:12:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jag,

The RSS link to the Mobiusly blog is:

http://mobiusly.com/feed/

Just point your favourite reader to it and it should work.

thanks,
dave</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jag,</p>
<p>The RSS link to the Mobiusly blog is:</p>
<p><a href="http://mobiusly.com/feed/" rel="nofollow">http://mobiusly.com/feed/</a></p>
<p>Just point your favourite reader to it and it should work.</p>
<p>thanks,<br />
dave</p>
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		<title>By: Jag</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jag</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2009 01:36:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.davecheong.com/2009/04/24/why-getting-personal-stuff-done-is-hard/#comment-107252</guid>
		<description>&quot;make sure you subscribe to it too if you’re interested in seeing what’s being cooked up.&quot;

There is no RSS syndication on business blog. 


Thank You,
Jag</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;make sure you subscribe to it too if you’re interested in seeing what’s being cooked up.&#8221;</p>
<p>There is no RSS syndication on business blog. </p>
<p>Thank You,<br />
Jag</p>
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		<title>By: Luke</title>
		<link>http://www.davecheong.com/2009/04/24/why-getting-personal-stuff-done-is-hard/comment-page-1/#comment-107187</link>
		<dc:creator>Luke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Apr 2009 02:46:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One thing I have to say is that some people have full blow passion for their blogs and other activities outside of work and that gives them the reward..Because it&#039;s almost a punishment for them to sit at home bored.

I&#039;m quite the same as you, I&#039;m pretty good when i&#039;ve got the passion, I&#039;ll write up a list of features for a project and everything i want out of it, And never execute it.

Same with my site too, Love having a domain..Never get round to design :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One thing I have to say is that some people have full blow passion for their blogs and other activities outside of work and that gives them the reward..Because it&#8217;s almost a punishment for them to sit at home bored.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m quite the same as you, I&#8217;m pretty good when i&#8217;ve got the passion, I&#8217;ll write up a list of features for a project and everything i want out of it, And never execute it.</p>
<p>Same with my site too, Love having a domain..Never get round to design <img src='http://www.davecheong.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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